At some point your narcissistic parent decided that you were the bad one. You have a sibling who is the favorite and can do no wrong and you probably have another sibling who is simply invisible. Whenever anything goes wrong in a narcissistic family the finger of blame is always pointed at one cause of the source, you!
You get blamed for breaking things, ruining things, and just being a royal F*#k up. Scapegoats are typically the family rebels who speak up against the abuse or just verbally observe the abusive behaviors taking place within the family. Scapegoats are instilled with feelings of inadequacy which causes them to go out of their way to do better.
Scapegoats are the ones the family will crucify in order to appear normal. You will be accused of being mentally ill, hateful, disrespectful, a criminal, uncontrollable, a liar, and down right crazy when you are not. As a scapegoat you are sacrificed by the narcissistic family in unimaginable ways. Rejection, lack of love, and a lack of acceptance creates some really remarkable people and at the same time leaves them scared and traumatized.
Scapegoats have some trust issues but get to know them and they will be the most loyal and respectful people you will ever meet. If you were the scapegoat of a narcissistic family and trying to find your way in life then this is the place for you.
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Abuse ,murder of this child by religious sadistic zealots, is ,timeless,as documented in books by. Alice Miller…,……..
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